ROSELYN HOUSE SCHOOL
Anti – Bullying Policy
Roselyn House School aims to develop an ethos of mutual respect and support. It prides itself on the relationships that are built between students and students, staff and students and staff and staff. Our school is a community where everyone is valued equally. We treat the well-being and positive mental health of our students and staff with the utmost importance and promote this well within our school. Bullying is taken seriously and will not be tolerated. This includes cyber bullying. Those being bullied are encouraged to report incidents. It is paramount that the message of understanding and respect is spread throughout the school and with our parents and carers.
This Policy works alongside guidance from DfE Keeping Children Safe in Education: Statutory Guidance for Schools and Colleges – September 2022 (September 2023 & 2024), DfE Preventing and Tackling Bullying – June 2018, Stonewall’s Getting Started Toolkit, and NAHT Guidance Preventing and tackling bullying of students.
It should be read alongside Roselyn House Schools Behaviour Policy, Curriculum Policy, Equality Policy, Race Policy, Online Safety Policy, and Social Media Policy.
In our dealings with students, staff emphasise the importance of respecting the feelings and emotions of others. This is a whole school approach and is delivered within PSHE, SEAL, CCC lessons and Pathway to Adulthood Curriculum. This is part of our SMSC programme across the whole school. See Personal, Social, Health and Economic Education and Spritual, Moral, Social and Cultural Development Policy and SEAL Curriculum incorporating mindfulness Policy.
Roselyn House School is a place where every person has the right to be themselves and to be included in a safe and happy environment. Everyone at our school is equal and should be treated with respect.
Aims and purposes of the policy
Bullying of any kind is unacceptable and will not be tolerated at our school. At our school the safety, welfare and well-being of all students and staff is a key priority. We take all incidences of bullying seriously and it is our duty as a whole school community to take measures to prevent and tackle any bullying, harassment or discrimination. We actively promote values of respect and equality and work to ensure that difference and diversity is celebrated across the whole school community. We want to enable our students to become responsible citizens and to prepare them for life in 21st Century Britain. These values reflect those that will be expected of our students by society when they leave school and enter the world of work or further study. We are committed to improving our school’s approach to tackling bullying by regularly monitoring, reviewing and assessing the impact of our preventative measures.
Through this Policy, Roselyn House School aims:
1. Definition of bullying
Bullying is hurtful or unkind behaviour which is deliberate and repeated. Bullying can be carried out by an individual or a group of people towards another individual or group, where the bully or bullies hold more power than those being bullied.
The nature of bullying can be:
Bullying can be based on any of the following things:
Race (racist bullying)
Racist bullying can range from ill-considered remarks, which are not intended to be hurtful, to deliberate physical attacks causing serious injury. Racist bullying can be identified by the motivation of the bully, the language used, and/or by the fact that victims are singled out because of the colour of their skin, the country they come from, their ethnic grouping or by their religious or cultural background. Examples of groups that often experience racist bullying include: Travellers, people moving to Britain from abroad, people with dark skin (including people whose ethnicity is white British), Muslims. Bullying is often thought to require repeated behaviour by one group of people/individuals against another, but victims of racist bullying often experience racism from many different sources, so even one-off incidents in school or other settings can have a similar impact to longer term bullying.
Religion or belief Bullying
This may relate to :
Being treated differently because of your religion, lack of religion or your beliefs is a type of discrimination. It's also wrong for someone to treat you unfairly because of your friend or family members' religion. It's still discrimination if someone doesn't mean to treat you differently or if they make a wrong assumption about you. Discrimination is against the law and you can get help to get it stopped.
Culture, Class and Social Bullying
Social Bullying is the second most common form of bullying, after name calling. This type of bullying is also known as covert and relational bullying as it is designed to humiliate and damage someone socially. This sort of bullying is often harder to recognise and is often carried out behind the back of the person who is being bullied. It includes:
It isn’t easy for someone going through this to accept when the line crossed from being a prank or banter to persistent bullying. By the time you realise it is bullying, it may feel harder to seek support.
"Pulling faces, writing notes in class, telling everyone to not speak to me and Chinese whispers about me."
Gender (sexist bullying)
This is bullying based on sexist attitudes that when expressed demean, intimidate or harm another person because of their sex or gender. These attitudes are commonly based around the assumption that women are subordinate to men, or are inferior. Sexist bullying may sometimes be characterised by inappropriate sexual behaviours. Bullying Behaviours may involve suggestive sexual comments or innuendo including offensive comments about sexual reputation; or using sexual language that is designed to subordinate, humiliate or intimidate. It is also commonly underpinned by sexist attitudes or gender stereotypes. Sexual bullying can be seen as sexual harassment in schools. This can affect both boys and girls.
Sexual orientation (homophobic or biphobic bullying)
Homophobic bullying is bullying that is based on prejudice or negative attitudes, beliefs or views about lesbian, gay or bi people. Homophobic bullying may be targeted at students who are, or who are perceived to be, lesbian, gay or bi. It can also suggest that someone or something is less worthy because they are lesbian, gay or bi. Homophobic bullying is also often targeted at students who have lesbian, gay or bi family members, and students who do not conform to gender stereotypes or are seen to be ‘different’ in some way. For example – a boy repeatedly being called ‘gay’ for holding hands with another boy – a girl who reports that she keeps repeatedly being called a ‘lesbian’ and ‘not a real girl’ by other students because she has short hair – a boy who is picked on for being gay at break-times because he doesn’t want to play football – ‘He must be gay if he doesn’t like football’ – a girl who reports that since she came out as a lesbian, other girls in her class keep moving away from her and giggling every time they’re in the changing rooms Biphobic bullying is bullying based on prejudice or negative attitudes, beliefs or views specifically about bisexual people. Biphobic bullying may be targeted at students who are openly bisexual, those who are questioning their sexual orientation, or students who are suspected of being bisexual. Biphobic bullying may target students with negative stereotyping (for example suggesting that they are greedy) or assume that being bisexual is a phase. For example – a bisexual student receiving ongoing name-calling and jokes about being ‘greedy’ because they are attracted to boys and girls – a bisexual student repeatedly being asked probing or intimidating questions such as ‘can’t you make your mind up – do you fancy boys or girls?’ or ‘why can’t you be normal and just pick boys or girls?’
Gender identity (transphobic bullying)
Transphobic bullying is bullying based on prejudice or negative attitudes, views or beliefs about trans people. Transphobic bullying affects young people who are trans but can also affect those questioning their gender identity as well as students who are not trans but do not conform to gender stereotypes. For example – students pestering a trans young person with questions about their gender such as ‘are you a real boy?’ or ‘are you a boy, or are you a girl? ’or asking invasive questions like ‘do you wear knickers or boxers?’ or ‘what body parts do you have?’ – a girl being teased and called names referring to her as a boy or trans because she wears trousers or ‘boys’ clothes’ – a boy who tells his friends that his dad is now his mum suffers other students laughing and repeatedly telling him ‘that can’t happen – your dad’s a freak’
Special Educational Needs (SEN) or disability
Research suggests that disabled children are three times more likely than their peers to be bullied. A survey by Mencap discovered that eight out of ten children with a learning disability have been bullied. People’s assumptions and prejudices about disability can make disabled children more vulnerable to bullying for a number of reasons, such as:
In addition to usual forms of bullying, disabled children may also experience different forms of bullying, like:
Appearance or health conditions
According to Changing Faces, the national charity working to support the visibly different and to counter prejudice, Jane Frances, policy adviser for the charity, talks of the huge effect of appearance bullying and the damage it does to children’s education. About 86,000 young people in the UK have significant facial disfigurement, she says. This is most often caused by congenital disorders, illness, accidents or skin conditions. “The way these young people look makes them particularly vulnerable to staring, comments, questions, ostracism and bullying.” It is not only those with a disfigurement who are affected by concerns about their appearance and who fear bullying. In a 2014 Girlguiding survey, 45% of 11- to 21-year-old females said they sometimes felt ashamed of the way they look, and 31% said they knew girls their age who had experienced bullying about a disability. The problems around body image in schools and colleges have also been recognised by the Centre for Appearance Research at the University of the West of England.
Related to home or other personal situation
There may be a number of different reasons why home situations may evoke bullying, for example, the young person:
Related to another vulnerable group of people
No form of bullying will be tolerated and all incidents will be taken seriously.
We all recognise and know that bullying, if left unaddressed can have a devastating and long-lasting effect on individuals. It can be a barrier to their learning and have serious consequences for their short and long-term mental health.
If schools prevent and tackle bullying, they can help to create a safe, disciplined environment where students are able to learn and fulfil their potential. (NAHT)
Law
The Education (Independent School Standards) Regulations 2014 stipulates that academies or other independent schools ensure bullying is prevented, in so far as reasonably practicable, by having an effective anti-bullying strategy in place.
A key provision of the Equality Act 2010 is the Public Sector Equality Duty (PSED), which came into force on 5 April 2011 and covers the following areas: age; disability; gender reassignment; pregnancy and maternity; race; religion or belief; sex and sexual orientation.
The PSED requires public bodies (that includes schools) to have due regard to the need for the following:
Eliminate unlawful discrimination, harassment, victimisation and any other conduct prohibited by the act
Additionally, part six of the Equality Act makes it unlawful for the responsible body of a school to discriminate against, harass or victimise a pupil (or potential pupil) in relation to admissions, the way it provides education, access to any benefit, faculty or service; or by excluding a pupil or subjecting them to any other detriment.
2. Reporting bullying
STUDENTS WHO ARE BEING BULLIED: If a student is being bullied they are encouraged to not retaliate but to tell someone they trust about it such as a friend, family member or trusted adult. They are also encouraged to report any bullying incidents in school:
Reporting –roles and responsibilities
STAFF: All school staff, both teaching and non-teaching, have a duty to report bullying, to be vigilant to the signs of bullying and to play an active role in the school’s efforts to prevent bullying. If staff are aware of bullying, they should reassure the students involved and inform a relevant member of the anti- bullying pastoral team. These are: Mr Birkenhead, Mrs Higgins and Mrs Smith.
SENIOR STAFF: The Senior Leadership Team and the Headteacher have overall responsibility for ensuring that the anti-bullying policy is followed by all members of staff and that the school upholds its duty to promote the safety and well-being of all young people.
PARENTS AND CARERS: Parents and carers should look out for potential signs of bullying such as distress, lack of concentration, feigning illness or other unusual behaviour. Parents and carers should tell their child not to retaliate and support and encourage them to report the bullying. Parents and carers can report an incident of bullying to the school either in person, or by phoning or emailing the school office or a member of staff - Mrs Mercer.
STUDENTS: Students should not take part in any kind of bullying and should watch out for potential signs of bullying among their peers. They should never be bystanders to incidents of bullying. If students witness bullying they should support the victim, encourage them to report the bullying and, if possible, accompany them to tell a trusted adult.
3. Responding to bullying when bullying has been reported, the following actions will be taken:
4. Bullying outside of school
Bullying is unacceptable and will not be tolerated, whether it takes place inside or outside of school. Bullying can take place on the way to and from school, before or after school hours, at the weekends or during the holidays, or in the wider community. The nature of cyber bullying in particular means that it can impact on students’ well-being beyond the school day. Staff, parents and carers, and students must be vigilant to bullying outside of school and report and respond according to their responsibilities as outlined in this policy.
Cyberbullying – Please see Online Safety Policy and Social Media Policy.
Cyber bullying is any form of bullying which takes place online or through smartphones and tablets. Social networking sites, messaging apps, gaming sites and chat rooms such as Facebook, XBox Live, Instagram, YouTube, Snapchat and other chat rooms can be great fun and a positive experience.
Cyber bullying is rife on the internet and most young people will experience it or see it at some time. In our recent national bullying survey, 56% of young people said they have seen others be bullied online and 42% have felt unsafe online. Cyber bullying can happen 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and it can go viral very fast.
There are many ways of bullying someone online and for some it can take shape in more ways than one. Some of the types of cyber bullying are:
Bullying by spreading rumours and gossip
The worst thing about social networking sites and messaging apps is that anything nasty posted about you can be seen by lots of people and these posts can go viral very fast and be shared by so many people within minutes in some cases.
From what we have heard from people who have been bullied online, the most vicious gossip and rumours are often spread by people who were once your best friends so it's best to keep secrets and personal information to yourself. Only tell people things if it wouldn't embarrass you if other people found out about them. Posting false and malicious things about people on the internet can be classed as harassment.
Being bullied online can affect someone enormously. Being bullied can impact on a person’s self-esteem, confidence and social skills. We have supported people affected by this type of bullying, and in many cases they have had to leave school, work and social networks to escape bullying. Try to consider the impact your words may have and think twice before posting.
5. Derogatory language Derogatory or offensive language is not acceptable and will not be tolerated. This type of language can take any of the forms of bullying listed in our definition of bullying. It will be challenged by staff and recorded and monitored on an information sheet and follow up actions and sanctions, if appropriate, will be taken for students and staff found using any such language. Staff are also encouraged to record the casual use of derogatory language using informal mechanisms such as a classroom log.
6. Prejudice-based incidents
A prejudice-based incident is a one-off incident of unkind or hurtful behaviour that is motivated by a prejudice or negative attitudes, beliefs or views towards a protected characteristic or minority group. It can be targeted towards an individual or group of people and have a significant impact on those targeted. All prejudice-based incidents are taken seriously and recorded and monitored in school, with the head teacher regularly reporting incidents to the governing body. This not only ensures that all incidents are dealt with accordingly, but also helps to prevent bullying as it enables targeted anti-bullying interventions.
7. School initiatives to prevent and tackle bullying
We use a range of measures to prevent and tackle bullying including:
8. Training
The Headteacher is responsible for ensuring that all school staff, both teaching and nonteaching receive regular training on all aspects of the anti-bullying policy.
9. Monitoring and reviewing
The Headteacher is responsible for how the policy is being enforced and upheld and along with Mr Birkenhead will monitor the effectiveness of the policy. The policy is reviewed every 12 months, in consultation with the whole school community including staff, students, parents and carers.
It is important that this policy is displayed clearly to the whole school. It is available on the school’s website and hard copies are readily available. It is also contained within the school prospectus. Visual displays around school tackle the issue of Bullying.
In order for this Policy to be effective, we need:
Student Friendly Anti-Bullying Policy
Roselyn House School is a place where every person has the right to be themselves and to be included in a safe and happy environment. Everyone at our school is equal and should be treated with respect.
What is bullying?
Bullying is hurtful or unkind behaviour which is deliberate and repeated. Bullying can be done by one person or by a group of people towards another person or a group of people where the bully or bullies hold more power than those being bullied.
What does bullying look like?
Bullying can be:
If someone is deliberately and repeatedly being hurtful or unkind towards you or someone else, whatever that looks like or for whatever reason, it is bullying.
What kinds of bullying can happen?
Bullying can be based on any of the following things:
Not every type of bullying is on this list. If someone is deliberately and repeatedly being hurtful or unkind towards you, for whatever reason, that is bullying.
What should I do if I’m being bullied or someone else is being bullied?
It is really important to report bullying. It won’t make the situation worse and it will help to stop the bullying whether it is happening to you or to someone else. If you know that someone is being bullied, try to reassure and support them, tell them that what is happening is wrong and help them to tell a trusted adult. There are many different ways to report bullying:
School staff will make sure that the bullying is recorded and taken seriously and will follow up to support you or the person being bullied. They will also act to sort out the situation with the bully and any others involved.
Letter to Parents/ Carers
Dear Parent/Carer,
As you are aware, Roselyn House School takes the well-being of all students very seriously. I am pleased, therefore, to inform you of our anti-bullying policy.
This school is a place where every person has the right to be themselves and to be included in a safe and happy environment. Everyone at our school is equal and should be treated with respect. Bullying of any nature or form is unacceptable and will not be tolerated. We take all incidences of bullying seriously and it is our duty as a whole school community to take measures to prevent and tackle any bullying, harassment or discrimination. The safety, welfare and well-being of all students and staff is a key priority. We actively promote values of respect and equality and work to ensure difference and diversity is celebrated across the whole school community. We want to enable our students to become responsible citizens and to prepare them for life in 21st Century Britain. These values reflect those that will be expected of our students by society when they leave school and enter the world of work or further study. We are committed to improving our school’s approach to tackling bullying by regularly monitoring, reviewing and assessing the impact of our preventative measures.
Summary of anti-bullying policy:
This will then be signed by Parents/ Carers.
The following organisations provide support for schools and parents dealing with specific bullying issues including the social, mental or emotional affects caused by bullying.
The ABA has also put together a fact sheet outlining the range of support that is available to schools and young people from the anti-bullying sector which can be accessed here.
Cyber-bullying and online safety
LGBTQ+
SEND
Information, Advice and Support Service Network: Every Local area has an information, advice and support service, providing information, advice and support to disabled children and young people, and those with SEN, and their parents.
Mental health
Race, religion and nationality
Please note that internal servers may block access to some of these sites. Schools wishing to access these materials may need to adjust their settings
Sexual harassment and sexual bullying
S. Damerall
Reviewed: June 2024